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        <![CDATA[ how long are punishments? what kind of punishments?


share your household rules...


Im new to being a teen parent and i like to hear others rules... sorry to seem so nosey... i think im strict and i dont want to be too too strict...


Our rules are... School days NO phone, computer, company after 830.. computer 1 - 1 1/2 hour limit per day ...


Bedtime is 9ish


Punishments first time offense we talk to her.. explain why then.. we take things away or she does chore or write essays...... ]]>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: curfews, bedtime, how much time on computer/phone per day  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ or sometimes i make reisha write essays.. my friend told me his mom used to do that and he hated it. reisha does too... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ thats great advice.........Im going to try that. Thanks! <img src="http://thefamilybiz.org/ezboard/emoticons/hugs.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I take the phone, computer and radio... Lying is a biggie for me because honesty is best and I want to trust her.. when she lies to me it makes me lose trust
in her. I told her telling the truth you wont get in as much trouble as a lie...I told her that I dont want her to be perfect, I want her to learn how to take
responsibility for her actions.. if u &quot;f&quot; up thats fine but be able to say that apologize and move on... She&#39;s gotten much better. I took her
phone, radio, computer for abou 3 months. This was after many many talks, warnings and small punishments though. I even share scriptures with her in the bible
about lying and stuff...
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I just talk to her and let her know that everybody make mistakes.. no one is perfect and im not expecting you to be perfect. I want you to tell me the truth
and go from there. Lying makes things worst and i have a very low tolerance for lying and screwing up in school. She&#39;s starting to read me and believe that
when she lies... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ Austin will lie too..........it drives me crazy.........I remember doing that when I was a teen........how did you punish her for lying momma? I talk to Austin
about it a lot but I havent punished her for that yet.........I need some other form of punishment other than that darn phone! <img src="http://thefamilybiz.org/ezboard/emoticons/lol.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ LMAO about lying from 13 until they move out!
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my dd#1 is a good girl.. but all of a sudden she couldnt tell the truth to save her life. i mean she would lie about any and everything... i punished her hard
over and over and over now it seems to be better.. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ The lying phase is about age 13 until they move out! <img src="http://thefamilybiz.org/ezboard/emoticons/lol.gif">
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Don&#39;t look to me for rules. We&#39;re pretty easy at my house. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ There has to be a such thing as a lying phase.. Reisha went thru it twice.. AUGH! ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ DS is 11 and does have PDD-NOS so we have to be creative with him since he doesn&#39;t understand things like most people.
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I try to keep him busy especially since Isabella has come along. When he gets home from school he has to do his homework right away. If he doesn&#39;t do it
right away it becomes a struggle all night long. Once the homework is done he unloads the dishwasher and sets the table for dinner. After dinner he feeds the
cats, gets his things ready for school the next day and picks up his room. Then, he is allowed to watch TV or play his video games. Bed is at 9pm sharp and he
usually starts getting ready for bed around 8:30. Three nights a week he has karate so he really doesn&#39;t get TV time.
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On the weekends he has the same responsibilities. During the day we are usually out or he is outside with his friends. He is not too big on talking on the
phone or texting yet.
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His punishments usually fit the crime. Bad grade in school, no TV or... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ You do an awesome job too!!! <img src="http://thefamilybiz.org/ezboard/emoticons/hugs.gif"> ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I dont think you hover over here. shes only 12 right? she should be watched and montiored... I think your doing an awesome job..
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how lucky is she to have her own horse? thats awesome!
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my dd#1 loves time with me. i didnt realize we didnt get a chance to hang out as much so i make sure we do something big once a week. this week we went to the
movies together. we had a good time! ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I take her phone away too.......she has to go to bed by 9PM but I allow her to read in bed until 9:30 ish..........I have started bringing her to my office
after school so I can make sure she gets her homework done and isnt on the computer, etc. while Im not at home (the sitter isnt very strict with her but is
really good with the little kids). Then when we get home I get her to help me cook and watch the little ones so she stays busy..............then I have her
clean the kitchen from dinner while I bathe the little ones...........then I put the little ones to bed and she and I will watch TV for a little while or Ill
let her get on the computer so I can see what she is doing...............then its time for her shower and then to go to bed...........
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I know it sounds like I hover over her but sometimes I let her go to the movies or spend the night with friends or go to the barn to see her horse,
etc.........
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I take her phone away when she disobeys me........or... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ how long are punishments? what kind of punishments?
<br>
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share your household rules...
<br>
<br>
Im new to being a teen parent and i like to hear others rules... sorry to seem so nosey... i think im strict and i dont want to be too too strict...
<br>
<br>
Our rules are... School days NO phone, computer, company after 830.. computer 1 - 1 1/2 hour limit per day ...
<br>
<br>
Bedtime is 9ish
<br>
<br>
Punishments first time offense we talk to her.. explain why then.. we take things away or she does chore or write essays... Taking her phone away is the most
effective. I had to take it away for about 3 months before... She&#39;s been an angel since then. I mean here and there she will do something but not the
mouthy stuff since she was without her phone for so long.... ]]></description>

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