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Hello..

In the wild and wonderful world of multiples..everyone around us,family,friends, complete strangers have comments and advice for us. I thought that maybe we could share some that worked or maybe backfired with each other. For all of us, who have survived the 1st year and more, may inspire or support a newbie.

My first thought, is to expect it to be tough but remember to enjoy the little things. It is so easy to feel overwhelmed. You may be wrapped up thinking about the next feeding,what laundry you can get done,a phone call to make, etc...you may miss that content look on their faces when they are finally sleeping. Remember to give youself time to enjoy them at each stage. They grow up too fast. I wish that I did this more.

Take pictures each month. Take one of them together and one of each of them. ( even if they sit on your memory card for a while - at least you have them.). It is wild to see what a difference a month makes.

Get out with the kids as soon as you can. For a walk, a ride in the car..etc. You can do it and it will do you and the kids a world of good.

Expect people to comment when you take them out. It will drive you crazy or crack you up at times. It seemed to happen more when they were babies then when they are older. Or maybe you just get used to it.

Find a schedule that works for you and really try to stick to it. Esp. the 1st year. It will help them sleep better. And in turn, you and DH may too.

Hope this helps..

Laura

B/G twins Caroline and David - almost 4 years old.