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sandiegottc	I need to vent..		Lead	[-]
Oldtimer Posts: 2331 03/04/2009 8:40 PM Member	Tags : None Remove this ad Someone is testing my patience. .. DH dad is always feeding my dd's off his plate.. The little one sees someone eating and she wants to eat.. I don't want to let her do that because I want her to be on a schedule.. you know.. sit with us and eat.. and she DOES.. and I let her have a snack or two here and there.. but I totally dislike that he is always not only offering but giving hr food from his plate.. etc.. .. and today he was really testing my patience.. .. I sat her down.. and was feeding her some beef stew.. (home made) with a piece of potatoe, zucchini, carrot, beef and rice.. WELL I was having a hard time, and he comes in the kitchen grabs a banana.. and she .. as usual.. reaches out.. he was near the sink.. and walks over.. while I am holding a spoon to her mouth and gives her a piece of banana.. of course after that she was totally NOT interested in her stew anymore.. GRANTED it was a banana.. and not a piece of donut or cookie as it usually is.. BUT his habit.. I am sick and tired of it.. Should I say something? or am I just PMSing? They (DH parents) get hurt very easily and I don't want to start a feud over nothing.. Thanks! Azucena 08/03/04 Aura 09/05/07 =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-= Me (32) DH (34) Together since 1995 Married since 2003
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Kasey		#1	[url]	[-]
Gold Member Over 10,000 posts !!! Oldtimer Posts: 10261 03/06/2009 7:57 PM	Are you over by your ILs much, or is this just once & awhile visit? If it's only occasionally, I'd probably try & bite my tongue, but I know it burns me too when MIL will give my boys food w/o asking me first. Grrrrr That is kinda gross that he gives your DDs food off of his plate though....talk about spreading germs! Kasey
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gibsonbaby06		#2	[url]	[-]
Gold Member Over 10,000 posts !!! Oldtimer Posts: 12307 03/07/2009 8:28 PM Find me @ cs.yuku.com!	totally agree. if it was an occasional visit, I wouldnt mind it. But I am quick to tell my IL and my dad what I think
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mommababyboy		#3	[url]	[-]
Gold Member Over 10,000 posts !!! Oldtimer Posts: 17018 03/09/2009 7:14 AM Three Buetful Girlz! Find me @ cs.yuku.com!	I agree too. Just talk to him.. Or when he does it cut in and say you will have what grampie said after your done.
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LPN2B		#4	[url]	[-]
Mod I can help you! Gold Member Over 10,000 posts !!! Oldtimer Over 500 global kudos! Posts: 11052 04/02/2009 10:07 PM Jaden & Carter's Mommy & now an RN!	If I remember right, I think they live with them. I would talk to DH about it. And possibly have him talk to them about it. Thats a toughy! 14 Wonderful Months Breastfeeding
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MzCuriosity		#5	[url]	[-]
Oldtimer Posts: 440 02/05/2010 4:11 AM	I have the same issue, my daughter is a little "social eater". But it was my parents and I told them I respect their right to be nana and paw-paw but we live in the same house and I don't want her to get in the habit ofeating off everyones plate because she needs to eat her own dinner. Of course that didn't work so when my daughter would ask for the food I corrected her in front of them. So they know without me having to sound like I was nagging. It works at least when I am around. Hope it gets better!
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