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Oldtimer Posts: 2681 01/20/2011 4:58 PM	Tags : None Remove this ad I just found out if all goes well with this weekend visit .....C WILL Move In February 12!!!!....... in 11 days!!!!! OMG! I can't believe it. This is really happening there is so much to do. find a school; a list of doctors... aaaaaaah! meet our daughter. hee hee hee. _________________________________________________ I was wondering if C was excited at all about being adopted my sw'er shared this email.: YESSSSSSSSSS! She likes us. : ) Everyone here feels excited about the match! We would like to set up the weekend visit for Friday 28th Can you see if that weekend would work for your family? **C was really happy on Friday night, but guarded. She said she was trying not to get her hopes too high, but really liked the Doe family.** See you the 28th God bless, _____________________________________________ Aaaaaaw she likes us too: I so completely understand her being guarded she doesn't want to be hurt again. I just keep reading this email again & again. She likes us, she likes us, she likes us..... & wants us for a family. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! _____________________________ Me 40 Dh 39 TTC Since 02 MC x4~12/03-7/04-2/07-2/09 ___________________________________ It's a Girl! Matched 1-14-11 A beautiful little 13 year old Miracle, my daughter! Last Edited By: Sydangle2 01/20/2011 5:03 PM. Edited 1 time.
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Oldtimer Posts: 3762 01/20/2011 7:52 PM	It is all so great! What are going to do that weekend. Kerry- 34 Alexis- 7 Mia- 1
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Newbie < 100 Posts Oldtimer Posts: 7 01/20/2011 8:21 PM	This is all happening so fast! Your head must be spinning! Huge congratulations again Mommy Sherry pollywaffle
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Oldtimer Posts: 6317 01/21/2011 9:23 AM	That's got to feel good to know that she likes you. Poor thing to have to be so guarded. Just like it's so hard to believe it's true for you - she probably feels the same way and is terrified that you'll change your mind or not like her or something. Bless her heart. I hope your weekend visit is WONDERFUL and that you all start to really "click". Please keep us posted!!!
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Oldtimer Posts: 2515 01/21/2011 10:14 AM Member	Sounds like a wonderful start to family life. Good luck with the weekend organization! I have a question because I am curious... Was it ever in your plan to adopt a teenager? How comfortable are you with this? Please believe me, I am not judging, just very interested in your story and also surprised because it is not usual for people to adopt older children. <a href="http://bellybelly.com.au/"><img src="http://bellybelly.com.au/t/mXi3IzGmuR.gif" border="0" /></a>
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Oldtimer Posts: 3167 01/21/2011 10:34 AM In love with our perfect Hannah!	Remove this ad WOW!! hee hee hoo hee hee hoo breathe
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Sydangle2		#6	[url]	[-]
Oldtimer Posts: 2681 01/21/2011 11:11 AM	Stef17 wrote: That's got to feel good to know that she likes you. Poor thing to have to be so guarded. Just like it's so hard to believe it's true for you - she probably feels the same way and is terrified that you'll change your mind or not like her or something. Bless her heart. I hope your weekend visit is WONDERFUL and that you all start to really "click". Please keep us posted!!! Yeah her Fmom was telling her not to get too excited .... things will never move that fast for you! I was in shock anyone could say that No wonder she's cautious. She probably thinks why would anyone want me?? I think we are already starting to click. Don't worry I have no illusion or expectation I know the time will come when she tests our commitment..... try as she might it won't happen she's our daughter. Heee heee. _____________________________ Me 40 Dh 39 TTC Since 02 MC x4~12/03-7/04-2/07-2/09 ___________________________________ It's a Girl! Matched 1-14-11 A beautiful little 13 year old Miracle, my daughter!
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Sydangle2		#7	[url]	[-]
Oldtimer Posts: 2681 01/21/2011 11:36 AM	emilie42080 wrote: I have a question because I am curious... Was it ever in your plan to adopt a teenager? How comfortable are you with this? Please believe me, I am not judging, just very interested in your story and also surprised because it is not usual for people to adopt older children. Not a problem I don't mind questions. Our plan was to adopt the 'right fit' for our family. It's different when you think of an older child... when it's a baby that baby grows into your family when the child is older they have a personality interests & you want them to mesh with what you want ... so you have a common ground to build on....but .... meeting her took away all the fear of the unknown. She is a wonderful young lady with a very caring heart. who still needs love & a family. Her & my husband have so much in common she not only looks physically like she belongs in my family, she looks like a mix of dh & I . She is like the missing peice to our family...she wants to learn music, learn to sing, dh has been in bands, wrote his own original music. She loves journaling her feeling so do I. She has an excitement for life as I do even with all the hurt she's been through. She loves tryin' anything new & is a very easy kid. God has led us all together for a reason we need to find out why or at least try & just enjoy the journey together. A lot of doors are closed when people say I ONLY want a Newborn .... You never know what god has planned for you ... a lot of it is being open to things & thinking you can.... not letting fear close doors. You never know what you are capable of ...unless you are open to all ages. God will lead you to the right path in his own time. The 'right fit' was more important than how young the child was. I can't wait to start our life together. God has chosen C for our daughter & I can't wait to get to know her more. What a resilient amazing young lady. She has such an amazing spirit. & She's our daughter. _____________________________ Me 40 Dh 39 TTC Since 02 MC x4~12/03-7/04-2/07-2/09 ___________________________________ It's a Girl! Matched 1-14-11 A beautiful little 13 year old Miracle, my daughter! Last Edited By: Sydangle2 01/21/2011 11:43 AM. Edited 3 times.
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emilie42080		#8	[url]	[-]
Oldtimer Posts: 2515 01/21/2011 11:56 AM Member	Thanks so much for taking the time to reply Sherry. I love your answer, and it all makes perfect sense the way you explain it. Seeing how strongly you feel about C being the right fit for your family, I sure understand why she likes you already, and I am sure she is going to fit right in indeed. <a href="http://bellybelly.com.au/"><img src="http://bellybelly.com.au/t/mXi3IzGmuR.gif" border="0" /></a>
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pollywaffle		#9	[url]	[-]
Newbie < 100 Posts Oldtimer Posts: 7 01/21/2011 6:01 PM	Remove this ad I can't wait to see a pic or hear her real name. When can you tell us? When she's legally your daughter? pollywaffle
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